Let

denote the event that the man is ill, and

denote the event that his wife is ill.
Then the probability of the event that he is off work

is:

,
this means that the probability is the sum of the probabilities of the
sub-events minus the probability that both sub-events occur (this is
because this is included within both sub-events will be double counted
if we do not subtract one of it).
Think of it like this: In 1000 days the man is ill on 50 days, his wife is ill
20 days, both are ill on 5 days, so he is off 50+20-5 days(this last to remove
double counted days)
where
)
denotes the probability that event

occurs given that event

occurs so:
Which is reasonable. It tell us that if his wife is ill he is more likely
to be ill also.
(Of the 20 days in 1000 that his wife is ill he is also ill on 5 of the days)
In a thousand days he is off work for 65 days, of which he is ill on
50, so:
RonL