How can I translate this into the RHS now?
I am absolutely content with you having others help if you are going to be so touchy and not aid in the question posed. You aren't obligated to help me. I am sure others need you.
Just to be clear by the term "you having others help" I by no means am imply for you to ask others. What I was trying to say in a nice manner was others can help me and I will be ok with it.