Hello everyone
I agree with Soroban's answer: I got a sign wrong in my working. My equation for the relative velocity was correct, though. The principle is:
The velocity of A relative to B is the velocity of A minus the velocity of B.
So, as I said:
not as you suggest: 
Originally Posted by
steve989
...
For that bit; wouldn't it be
 + (4/5)vti - (5 - (3/5)v)tj)
? The signs switch as they are on different sides of the equation I assumed, but I may of miss-understood since I got a completely different answer anyway. Sorry about the layout too, I'm useless with this maths typing.
However, I then got a sign wrong when I equated the
component of the displacement to zero. The equations should have been:
which, of course, are the same as Soroban's equations [1] and [2]. 
Originally Posted by
steve989
...I do have one question though for both you and grandad; why does the velocity vector of the destroyer end up with

as the scalar? I thought it was just

, I think I'm going to get a simple answer to that question though.
Thanks very much again for your answers.
Because the magnitude of
is
. So
will have magnitude
.
Grandad