The set of pairs
:\alpha \in A} \right\})
is known a the diagonal from the table of ordered pairs.
There are

pairs in that table so

Therefore there are

off diagonal pairs.
Any reflexive relation on

must contain

.
So any reflexive relation is the union of

with any subset of off diagonal pairs.
How many of those are there?
Any symmetric relation on

,

, has the property that

.
There are
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pairs either on the diagonal or above it.
Any subset of those pairs corresponds to a symmetric relation.
Just take that subset and unite it with its inverse.
How many are there?