Verify normal derivative of a sphere.
I’ve search through many books and went online without any luck, I come up with a way to proof this and I need someone here to verify I am correct. Here is the problem:
Normal derivative is defined as:

Where
is the unit outward normal of the surface of the sphere and for a small sphere with surface
, the book gave:

The book claimed on a sphere:
. Where
is the radius of the sphere.
I found the explanation from the PDE book of Strauss.

Where 
I don’t get how to go from

This is the way I have to proof the identity:
In spherical coordinates:

We know
and therefore 
![\Rightarrow \; \nabla u \cdot \hat{n} \;=\; [\frac{\partial u}{\partial r}\hat{r} \;+\; \frac{1}{r}\frac{\partial u}{\partial \theta}\hat{\theta} \;+\; \frac{1}{r sin \theta}\frac{\partial u}{\partial \phi} \hat{\phi}] \;\cdot\; \hat{r} = \frac{\partial u}{\partial r}](http://latex.codecogs.com/png.latex?\Rightarrow \; \nabla u \cdot \hat{n} \;=\; [\frac{\partial u}{\partial r}\hat{r} \;+\; \frac{1}{r}\frac{\partial u}{\partial \theta}\hat{\theta} \;+\; \frac{1}{r sin \theta}\frac{\partial u}{\partial \phi} \hat{\phi}] \;\cdot\; \hat{r} = \frac{\partial u}{\partial r})
Where I substute n with r. But I still don't get the "-" sign yet.
Please give me your opinion. and help.
Thanks
Alan