it suffices to exhibit just ONE counter-example, so let's pick an easy A to work with:

let A = Z+Z, the direct sum of the additive group (Z,+), where Z is the integers we know and love.

let f(m,n) = (n,0). first, i show that f is indeed in End(A):

f((m,n)+(m',n')) = f((m+m',n+n')) = (n+n',0) = (n,0) + (n',0) = f(m,n) + f(m',n').

next i show that f is nilpotent:

f^{2}((m,n)) = f(f((m,n))) = f((n,0)) = (0,0), so f^{2}is the zero-map.

now, let g(m,n) = (0,m). prove that g is likewise a nilpotent endomorphism of Z+Z.

next, show f+g is NOT nilpotent (where (f+g)(m,n) = f((m,n)) + g((m,n)).

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for the first problem, consider (1_{A}- f)(1_{A}+ f + f^{2}+....+ f^{n-1}).